Automated Translation:
Every person should have a grain of gold, the gold on our body is closely related to our health. It is said that golden water should fall on your body. So when a girl goes to her in-laws, nose and ear ornaments are to be given. I sincerely believe that Mangalsutra is useful for all three aspects of beauty, health and protection of a woman. Just as our body needs pancharasa from food, panchadhatu is also needed for good health of five senses. Do not use gold as gold-silver, copper, diamonds, pearls; We use kunku, bangles even before marriage, any woman must use mangalsutra even if her husband dies. Mangalsutra is our security guard. When the mangalsutra is worn around the neck, men will be shy. Every woman can defend herself.

If it is felt that a woman should not perform the OT, all the materials of the OT should be given in her hands and her neck should be protected. As a child, my grandmother used to send us to everyone's house in the village to invite us for Haldi Kunkva.She used to tell us that even if a woman's husband got married, she should come to see Gaur in the evening. No one underestimates any woman whose husband is not in it, so why do we need time now? I am telling this story from 49 years ago. Then think, quick change and all the good luck caves for your body..., beauty, protection, happiness of mind, mental balance... Besides, we should give our passion, our culture to the next generation, right? As we move towards the twenty-first century, let us all try to build happiness in the life of any friend who has lost her husband without suffering. Let's change the mind completely.

A widow is not hindered from doing all the work at night, so she only has difficulty in religious work, what justice is this? I am clear, any married woman should use all her good fortune without getting tired. One should maintain one's existence and live with a stiff neck.Usha Thakurdesai, Dahanu, Distt. Thane.

the morning

Friday, February 17, 2012

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Our society has decided the women in which specific 'choktit' a married woman should live. There is no such penalty for a man whose wife has died. With the passage of time, we should get rid of these imposed customs and traditions..

Akshaya Arun Patil

My husband Arun, Patil suddenly passed away while not even caring for her. I was not really in the mood to bear that shock, but still that day I told my mother-in-law, I will not remove my lucky charms. She was 83 years old, a little old in her turn, but she stood by me. He told everyone at that moment, leaving her good fortune! It was a strong support given by one woman to another woman..

We had talked about this once when Arun was there. He told me that even if I go, you should stay as you are now. Both my sons supported me.

I went to a few acquaintances who knew that Arun was not there today, and their eyes turned to the mangalsutra around my neck. It is direct. Some do not speak; But I know many things from their eyes! I have learned to ignore it. Despite being educated, I did not work because of the responsibility of taking care of the children. I don't think that working people need to learn the 'Kathach' of Mangalsutra from prying eyes. It symbolizes how firm you are with your values ​​and culture.

My father passed away when I was very young. Mother is a school teacher, employed. Even now I clearly remember that her mother also advised her to stay as you are, how long ago! After the sad man in the house leaves, when all the decisions in the house fall on you, it is natural for him to get the edge of sympathy and compassion from people. Today I was able to inculcate the most important ritual on both my children, that is to inculcate true self-respect!

The same year Arun passed away, my doctor friend gave me Turmeric-Kunkwala Bolaval and Mala Vran too..Even today, my niece, elder Nanand, younger sister-in-law send off after I leave with turmeric and kunkum. Who judged us to take away the honor we give to a girl from her virginity just because her husband is gone? No women! The feeling of being 'unwanted' is often strongly felt in ceremonies such as Haldi-Kunku and Otibharan. In some places, they are told that they do not want to wave or see children on their birthdays. A woman is often the enemy of a woman. Bai Guman continues to carry the burden of years of tradition, insisting that other women also follow it. We have also set the criteria for what colors should be worn by an unmarried woman.If she is a widow, she should stay away from gaudy colors; Black, pink, yellow color is forbidden to her! If God does not like the color black, there are also black beads in the mangalsutra... When the question of remarriage comes to the widow, her stomach is filled again... The people who impose this practice do not have the answers to many questions like this. If the woman decides to protect Bai's self-respect, everyone will know each other's happiness from the bottom of their hearts!

(Lyrics : Sharmila Kalgutkar)

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'Vasai Special Tours' for tourists

Located at a distance from Mumbai, the historical, religious, and natural beauty of scenic Vasai is a delight for tourists. Recognizing the importance of this place, known as 'Mini Goa' by tourists, entrepreneur Kiran Bhoir has started 'Vasai Special Tours' for tourists under the name 'Flavors of Vasai'.

They are running this through KMC Holidays and Offshore Private Limited, and within a short time they have received an enthusiastic response from tourists from Mumbai, Thane, Pune, Nashik as well as foreign tourists.

104 tours were conducted during the last year. For the convenience of tourists, KMC Holidays offers a variety of 1-day, 2-day, 3-day as well as 10-day tours and corporate tours are offered. Along with historical forts and pristine beaches, there are also sites like the the 2500-year-old temple built by Lord Parasurama in Srikshetra Nirmal with the mausoleum of the fifth Jagadguru Shankaracharya Vidyaranya Swami, a visit to the ancient Buddhist Stupa at Nalasopara, Vajreshwari, Ganeshpuri, natural water tanks, Usgaon, Pelhar Ghar, Jeevdani Temple and Ivarpuri nestled in the lap of the mountain- tourist will be able to enjoy the natural beauty of these places.

Entrepreneur Kiran Bhoir started this initiative with the aim of developing Vasai touristically and also to boost local employment, so that more domestic and foreign tourists should visit Vasai. Contact KMC Holidays and Offshore Private Limited to participate in these tours.